National Baby Making day … yes really!!!!

Happy “National Baby Making Day” … yes really the 2nd of January is officially the most popular day of the year for couples to conceive a baby, with the most common time being just after 10pm!!! Although for us we had the amazing and miracle journey of IVF to conceive our little cub, we did

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How being parents has changed our marriage.

I remember so many conversations with Mark about what we were going to be like as parents, not so much about how it would change us (well to be honest we would have never even got close to understanding that pre baby!) but how much it “wasn’t” going to change us, who we were, our

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Why I suck at being a friend right now.

I can whole heartily admit that right now I really do suck at being a friend, let alone a good one … the reason – I’m really trying not to suck at being a mummy! I must begin by offering an understanding apology to all my friends that have been before me into the world

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Cub Update – The Fourth Trimester.

After regular posts throughout our fertility treatment and IVF since having the little cub the only spare time I have had to write, seems to have been taken up by walking round town in a daze, staring stunned at this little human that we have created or asleep with my eyes open in coffee shops

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The Birth of Bodhi River

“It is said that women in labour leave their bodies … they travel to to the stars to collect the souls of their babies and return to this world together” – anonymous. On Friday 24th of February at exactly 00.08 I did just that and returned to the earth with the most precious soul that

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